Is your husband shy in bed or assertive? Mine is just the most submissive and I want him to be more assertive and forceful. Any tips? I’m legit asking lol.

Feb 17 2012
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“Is your husband shy in bed or assertive? Mine is just the most submissive and I want him to be more assertive and forceful. Any tips? I'm legit asking lol.”

-penguintnt

Very assertive, but loving. It’s wonderful to have a hubbs that’s lovey dovey … occasionally I do have to coax him into ‘fuck mode’ lol.

Porn. Find some porn where the man is the dominant, and being the assertive and aggressive one. Watch it with him and during a scene you find particularly pleasing, get your best sex kitten voice on and and purr to him how incredibly hot seeing a man be forceful is. Men like to think that they come up with all the ideas, and more more likely to do something if they think it’s coming from them … so you kind of have to be a bit sneaky about it. Sex wise most men want more than anything to make their lady happy … maybe he just doesn’t know how to go about being more assertive, and having a visual will most def help. <3 <3

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penguintnt said: I’ll have to try that..we’ve never watched porn together though, so that should be fun. I did ask him if he would be willing to try some bondage type stuff where HE is trying ME up. I was hoping that would send him the right message lol.
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